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Do I go to my friends wedding or my parents wedding anniversary...?
My friend (of about 5 yrs) invited me to her wedding, she is lovely and we get on great even though we don't see each other that much. She said she wants me involved too - to help her put on her sari as she is having a church and hindu ceremony. The invite came this weekend.
My parents 40th wedding anniversary is a one week berfore her wedding and my father is arranging a surprise party for my mum, which includes renewing vows and the original vicar who married them. But it will be abroad, and if I go I will miss out on my friends wedding.
I've said to my friend that I would go to her wedding, but only recently found out about my dad's plans for their anniversary, which is the day before my birthday. The events are both in March but my parents one will be abroad with family whom I haven't seen for about 5yrs. So I would not be able to attend both.
I'm caught out. I don't know what to do.
Any ideas?
Thanks x
There is no question here at all - you MUST go to your parent's wedding anniversary.
Contact your friend and explain to her that you've just found out about your father's plans and you are sorry, but you feel you must go to your parent's anniversary. I am sure, under the circumstances, she will understand.
I don't know how close you are to your parents - maybe you would rather go to your friend's wedding - but I know if it were me, and my daughter went to her friend's wedding rather to me and her dad's anniversary, I would be really hurt.